Daily caregiving balancing act – how much to help?

Brain & Life magazine (brainandlife.org) is published by the American Academy of Neurology.  In the most recent issue, they have a good article on caregiving.  Here’s an excerpt:

“As many caregivers know, offering just the right amount of help can be challenging and stressful for both sides, and requires time and communication. And even after striking the right balance, the needs of the person being cared for may change, requiring caregivers to recalibrate.”

Here’s a “caregiving rule” suggested by a nurse practitioner in the article:

“Dr. Resnick has what she calls a three-time rule: A caregiver allows a patient three tries at a task before stepping in. If the task is putting on a shirt, Dr. Resnick will do one step, perhaps helping the patient put on one sleeve, and then step back. If getting the button secured is the next challenge, she breaks down the action and allows the patient to try again. If the patient is truly not up to a task, Dr. Resnick suggests working together to accomplish it, for example, by placing a patient’s hands over your own as you perform an action.”

Here’s a link to the full article:

www.brainandlife.org/the-magazine/article/app/14/2/20/in-the-balance-knowing-how-much-to-help-is-a

In the Balance
Knowing how much to help is a daily challenge for many caregivers. Our expert advice can help you find that sweet spot.

by Natalie Pompilio
April/May 2018
Brain & Life