Carbonated liquids may help swallowing dysfunction (small Swedish study)

This is interesting research from Sweden on the effect of carbonated liquid on swallowing dysfunction. Though the study was done on 48 patients with Lewy body dementia, the findings likely apply to all in the Brain Support Network community.

Two interesting points were made:

1- While 40 patients had swallowing dysfunction confirmed through videofluoroscopy, 14 of these did not perceive they had swallowing symptoms.

2- Out of the patients with swallowing dysfunction, 87% had “an overall improved swallowing function with carbonated liquid.” This was true even that the pharyngeal transit time of carbonated liquid was quicker than think liquid or thickened liquid.

Of course you can test whether carbonated liquids work (for you or for your family member) by requesting they be tried during videofluoroscopy.

The abstract is below.

Robin

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www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/28848329

Clinical Interventions in Aging. 2017 Aug 8;12:1215-1222.

Effects of carbonated liquid on swallowing dysfunction in dementia with Lewy bodies and Parkinson’s disease dementia.

Larsson V, Torisson G, Bülow M, Londos E.

Abstract

BACKGROUND:
Swallowing dysfunction is an increasingly recognized problem in patients with dementia with Lewy bodies (DLB) and Parkinson’s disease dementia (PDD), which can result in aspiration pneumonia and death. Few studies have examined potential ways of improving swallowing function in this fragile patient group. The aim of this study was to evaluate swallowing dysfunction and carbonated liquid using videofluoroscopy in DLB and PDD patients.

METHODS:
A total of 48 patients with DLB and PDD were referred for a clinical examination with videofluoroscopy. Descriptive overall assessments were provided at the time of the examination regarding swallowing function and the effects of different modifications, including carbonated thin liquid (CTL). Additionally, a repeated measures quantitative retrospective analysis has been performed comparing 1) thin liquids; 2) thickened liquids and 3) CTLs, with regard to the quantitative variables 1) pharyngeal transit time (PTT); 2) pharyngeal retention and 3) tracheal penetration.

RESULTS:
In all, 40/48 (83%) of the patients had a swallowing dysfunction, which was confirmed on videofluoroscopy, with 34/40 (85%) patients having a pharyngeal-type dysfunction. A total of 14/40 (35%) patients with an objective swallowing impairment did not have any subjective swallowing symptoms. Out of the patients with swallowing dysfunction, 87% had an overall improved swallowing function with carbonated liquid. PTT for carbonated liquid (median 633 ms, interquartile range [IQR] 516-786 ms) was quicker than for thin liquid (760 ms, IQR 613-940 ms, P=0.014) and thickened liquid (880.0 ms, IQR 600-1,500 ms, P<0.001). No significant effect was seen in residue or penetration.

CONCLUSION:
The majority of patients with DLB or PDD had a swallowing dysfunction, sometimes without subjective swallowing symptoms, which improved with carbonated liquid. This highlights the importance of investigating patients with videofluoroscopy and to carry out a prospective interventional study to further evaluate carbonated liquid, also addressing the effects on quality of life, aspiration and mortality.

“Managing Advanced Parkinson’s” – Professional Caregiver Training Notes

There was a training program called TULIPS, designed for professional caregivers (such as nurses in nursing homes) who have clients with Parkinson’s Disease. The program is being revised and is no longer available. But we located an old copy.

Brain Support Network volunteer Denise Dagan recently looked over the TULIPS training for “Managing Advanced Parkinson’s Disease” as the diseases in our community are more similar to advanced PD than early or middle-stage PD.

Here are Denise’s notes from the training. Interspersed in brackets are a few comments from Denise, whose father had Lewy Body Dementia.

Robin


Denise’s Notes from

Managing Advanced Parkinson’s Disease
TULIPS: training for better Parkinson’s care
Struthers Parkinson’s Center, Minneapolis, MN

 

Section 1 – Planning Ahead

Create back up plans for what to do:
– if you have an urgent errand
– if you need home maintenance or repair
– if you become ill
– if your loved one becomes ill
– if you both become ill.

[This is the question we posed to my Mom, “What if you wake up with the flu and can’t help Dad with anything, even for just one day?” She didn’t have an answer and that allowed us to move forward with hiring in-home care.]

 

Section 2 – Acknowledging Changing Roles and Relationships

– Maintain intimacy through touch, conversation, shared times and humor.
– When communicating becomes difficult for both speaker and listener, set up hand signals or other gestures to reply to yes/no questions.
– A speech-language pathologist may provide additional suggestions to enhance communication.

 

Section 3 – Deciding Where to Live

Remaining in Your Own Home:
– Will a ramp be needed for outside access?
– Do floor surfaces easily accommodate wheelchair transport?
– Are the bedroom and bathroom accessible?
[Have an occupational therapist perform a home assessment and make suggestions about accessibility and safety.]
– Attractive bins or baskets will disguise needed equipment while maintaining appealing surroundings.

Moving to a New Home:
– Consider both present and potential needs, including help with meal preparation, medication set-up, personal care and/or complex medical management. Find out how much these services cost [either in-home or if you are researching a facility].
– Investigate facilities, comparing services and prices, available staffing assistance and experience with caring for those with Parkinson’s disease.

Creating Comfortable Surroundings:
Wherever you live your surroundings should be comfortable, functional, and relaxing. Nobody wants to spend time in an institution
– Consider a pleasing fragrance.
– Include meaningful objects, mementos, achievements, photographs or family, friends, vacations, pets, etc.
– Bring nature indoors for those who cannot go outdoors frequently. Plant a garden or hang a bird feeder where they are easily viewed.
– Play favorite music to set a mood and facilitate conversation.
– Use soft fabrics and blankets to appeal to the touch.
– Connect through a warm soak, followed by a hand and/or foot massage.

 

Section 4 – Caregiver Self Care

– Learn proper techniques to prevent injury during caregiving responsibilities. [Especially to protect your back.]
– Write dates you need respite support on a calendar and ask those who offer help to “sign up” for one or more of these dates.
– Learn about respite care options through family, friends, neighbors, friends, faith communities or other community services. Investigate adult day programs, respite volunteer programs, or facilities that offer short-term stays in the event of caregiver vacation, illness, or need for time away. Network with other caregivers or visit with a local social worker or senior services agency to identify available options.
– Avoid negative people and unrealistic expectations.

 

Section 5 – Assisting Movement

Someone with Parkinson’s disease may require assistance at one time of day, while being independent another time. Offer assistance as needed. Consider making an appointment with a physical or occupational therapist who can offer proper training for caregivers, suggest appropriate aids and instructions for use, and make referrals to additional community resources.

– Before starting to move, a gentle rocking or rolling motion will help stiff muscles to relax. Avoid quick, pulling, or jerking movements.
– Offer hand-over-hand assistance as needed.
– A transfer belt around the waist provides the caregiver with a firm grasp and added stability when assisting with walking or transfers.
– Coordinate efforts by arranging a signal (i.e. “1-2-3 stand”) when working together. Count slowly and give adequate time to respond.
– Transfer “pivot discs” may be appropriate for those who have difficulty turning feet when moving from chair to bed or toilet. Visit a therapist for instruction on proper use.
– Mechanical lifts may be used for those unable to bear their own weight during transfers.
– Limit conversations when moving to allow greater focus on walking or transfers.
– Use color contrast when choosing equipment (i.e. install a white grab bar on a dark colored wall) for potential vision changes.

 

Section 6 – Providing Mealtime Assistance

– Avoid tough, dry, or crumbly textures.
– Small, more frequent meals may be better for those with low blood pressure, fatigue, or who note feeling full quickly.
– Alternate between liquids and solids at mealtime.
– Allow adequate time for chewing and swallowing.
– Offer ice chips or lemon ice to aid swallowing.
– Give medications in applesauce to make swallowing pills easier.
– Do not feed, offer fluids or give medications when someone is lying down.
– Raise height of tray or plate to make eating easier, especially for those with neck immobility or vision changes.
– Consult a speech-language pathologist if coughing, choking, or recurrent lung infections occur.
– Feeding tubes may be considered for those with severe problems, but should be carefully considered with the individual, family and the health care team.

 

Section 7 – Dental Care

– Use an antiseptic mouthwash twice daily to decrease plaque and kill bacteria.
– Use an electric toothbrush and toothpaste.
– Dairy products and sugary foods may increase drooling.

 

Section 8 – Toileting

Bladder Changes:
– Stay well hydrated.
– Allow plenty of time to use the toilet.
– Work with a physical or occupational therapist to learn ways to help the person with Parkinson’s transfer to the toilet and avoid injury.
– A pad placed inside an incontinence brief adds extra absorbency.
– Use disposable or washable pads on the bed to protect the mattress and reduce laundry.
– Use a urinal (available for both men and women) bedpan, or bedside commode to reduce bathroom trips at night.
– Condom catheters are a user-friendly solution for urgency, frequency, and incontinence.
– Indwelling catheters may be placed in those with more significant bladder problems. Ask your doctor.

Managing Constipation:
Try these steps and contact your nurse or doctor if bowel movements do not occur at least every 3 days.
– Increase fiber and fluids.
– Try more regular activity (position changes and/or exercise).
– Use over-the-counter stool softeners, as needed.

 

Section 9 – Skin Care

As persons with Parkinson’s disease age, their skin may become fragile and prone to break down. Suggestions to help prevent pressure sores and infection include:
– Change position every two hours.
– Massage lotion into the skin to prevent dryness and improve circulation.
– Be observant for redness, blisters, or open sores. Report skin changes promptly to prevent a more serious problem.
– Plastic coating and tapes from incontinence products can cause irritation. Avoid contact with the skin.
– Use heel/elbow protectors for added skin protection.
– If in a wheelchair, obtain a cushion to lessen the risk of getting a pressure sore.

When bathing:
– Make sure skin folds are thoroughly washed and dried.
– Consider a sponge bath for those with limited mobility or unsafe transfers to the tub or shower.
– A home health aide can offer bathing assistance if this task becomes too difficult or time consuming for a family caregiver.

When in bed:
– Change clothing or bed linens more frequently if increased sweating is a problem
– Use an “egg crate” or alternating pressure mattress to help prevent skin pressure when in bed.

 

Section 10 – If Someone Falls

– Work with a physical therapist to learn safe and proper techniques to help someone get up from a fall.
– Do not hurry to get up. First, check for injuries. Some people need to rest before attempting to rise.
– If the person who fell is unable to get up, make him/her as comfortable as possible until help arrives.
– If able, scoot to a heavy piece of stable furniture, then move onto hands and knees before attempting to get up.
– Consider using knee or elbow [or head?] protectors for those having frequent falls.
– Consider special clothing with added cushion over hip joints.
– Create a “back up” plan for assistance with rising. Do you have a cell phone, medical alert system, family member or neighbor?

 

Section 11 – Thinking changes

Not all people with Parkinson’s disease develop severe thinking changes, which can include increased forgetfulness, confusion, compulsive behaviors, paranoia, anxiety, or personality changes. Promptly report any new or sudden changes in thinking or behavior to your health care team. Medications may need adjusting or medications may be prescribed for depression, declining memory, or hallucinations. Seek counseling, if needed.

Thinking changes can worsen when someone is ill, hospitalized, or in an unfamiliar environment.

Provide adequate time to allow response to questions or comments to maintain dignity and self-esteem.

What to Say:
– Provide simple 1-step instructions. Too many words can be overwhelming.
– Repeat instructions for those with memory problems.
– Avoid confrontation. Telling someone who is confused or having hallucinations that they are wrong usually makes them more upset.
– Speak in reassuring tones and try to divert their attention from the situation.
– Avoid using negative humor or sarcastic remarks which may be misinterpreted.

Things to Do:
– Set up clothing or toiletries in order of use.
– Establish a daily routine and stick to is as much as possible. Use a calendar or white board to provide reminders.
– Avoid multiple conversations or activities at the same time. This may add to confusion and anxiety.
– Speak face-to-face.
– Be tolerant of remarks or actions that may be uncharacteristic of previous personality of temperament.
– Reduce unrealistic expectations.
– Register for the “Safe Return” program sponsored by the Alzheimer’s Association (alz.org), which identifies those who become lost or separated from their caregivers.

 

Section 12 – Ideas and Suggestions for Activities

– Game shows, sharing a crossword puzzle, watching a nature or history program on TV.
– Provide videos or books on art, travel, architecture, or animals. For those with vision changes, try books on tape or CD.
– Find ways in which a person can participate in familiar activities. (i.e. give a hobby fisherman a tackle box to organize – remove the hooks, or have a home maker fold laundry or wipe counters)
– Petting, grooming, or playing with pets provides companionship, regular touch, physical and mental stimulation.
– Invite visits from relatives, friends, and neighbors.
– Attend an adult day program.
– Maintain connections with your faith community, read daily devotions or other meaningful passages, and speak with clergy.
– Set up a “relaxation station” with headphones to play nature sounds or soft music to decrease restlessness or anxiety.
– Schedule rest periods throughout the day, but avoid excessive daytime sleeping.
– Exercise! If following instructions is not possible, throw a ball or play balloon volleyball.
– Assist with a few extra arm & leg motions while dressing, bathing or other cares for more exercise.

 

Section 13 – Choosing a Wheelchair

Schedule an appointment with an occupational or physical therapist to find out which chair is best for individual needs. Visit a medical supply store prior to purchase. Check with your insurance to find out what type of chair is covered.

– A lightweight chair is easier to lift in/out of a car.
– A reclining chair back is helpful for those with posture changes or low blood pressure, or who needs to rest during the day.
– Footrests are important, especially when a caregiver is pushing the chair.
– Elevating leg rests may be more comfortable.
– Desk-style arms may allow easier positioning at a table for eating and other activities.
– Bolsters may improve sitting posture in the chair.
– Obtain a cushion that offers a firm sitting base and skin protection.
– ALWAYS lock wheelchair brakes prior to transfers. Clearly mark brake levers with colored tape for easier use.

 

Section 14 – Pain Control

– Report pain promptly to the health care team. Medication adjustment may help reduce excessive stiffness and/or muscle cramping.
– Typically, over-the-counter pain relievers can be safely used with Parkinson medications. Confirm with your physician.
– Warm packs may aid in pain control. Avoid electric heating pads, which may burn. Microwaveable or air-activated heat wraps are safer.
– Pain from falls or other accidents may be better controlled with ice packs to reduce swelling.
– Massage can aid circulation and decrease soreness.
– Use cushions as needed for comfort and support. Avoid using too many pillows, which contribute to a flexed posture.
– Increased wandering, agitation, or unexplained crying in those with dementia can be a sign of pain.
– Visit a physical therapist for specific pain evaluation and additional recommendations.

 

Section 15 – Approaching End of Life

Do Not Resuscitate (DNR):
There should be a frank and honest discussion about what should be done in the event of a life-threatening emergency. A DNR order means that no lifesaving techniques will occur in the event of the loss of heartbeat and/or breathing. These wishes must be declared to a physician and signed documentation must be completed. A copy must be shown to emergency personnel. A “living will” alone is often not enough to ensure these wishes are carried out.

Choosing Hospice Care:
Hospice is available to anyone with limited life expectancy and emphasizes comfort care rather than aggressive treatment. Quality, rather than quantity, of life is stressed for both care receiver and care giver. Emotional, spiritual, and practical support is provided based on individual needs. Professional medical care continues throughout.

– A physician referral is required.
– Check to see if hospice is covered by your insurance. [Hospice is covered by Medicare.]
– There are many hospice services in urban areas to choose from.

[Prior to hospice care, ask your doctor about palliative care. Palliative care focuses on providing relief from the symptoms and stress of a serious illness. The goal is to improve quality of life for both the patient and the family. Medicare Part B may cover some palliative care treatments and medications, including doctors visits, nurse practitioners, and social workers.]

“Grit, Grace, and Resilience: The Story of Successful Caregiving” Webinar, Aug 30

Family Caregiver Alliance is hosting a webinar for caregivers to those with dementia this Wednesday, August 30th, 11am to noon PT. Details are:

Grit, Grace, and Resilience:
The Story of Successful Caregiving

Caring for someone with dementia is a demanding and enduring challenge. It takes our best selves and all the support we can get from those in our communities. This webinar is a reflection on ways those who provide care can sustain their health and well-being throughout the caregiving journey.

Objectives:
* Learn why accepting the situation is important.
* Identify three tools to help balance safety and independence.
* Learn healthy coping strategies.

Speaker: Sarah Dulaney
Sarah Dulaney earned a Master of Science degree in gerontological nursing at UCSF and is certified as a Geriatric Clinical Nurse Specialist by the American Nurses Credentialing Center. For the past 14 years, Sarah has worked with adults with cognitive impairment in community, long term care and hospital settings.  The focus of Sarah’s work is on improving care delivery and support for patients with dementia and their caregivers in whatever setting they may live. She finds joy in “sharing the moment” with people with dementia.

When: Wednesday, August 30, 11 a.m. to 12 noon (PT)

Cost: No charge

Contact: Calvin Hu, [email protected], (415) 434-3388 ext. 313

Registration

Results from AbbVie phase 1 study of tau antibodies in PSP

At the recent Alzheimer’s Association International Conference, reports were given on phase 1 trials of tau antibodies. Tau is the protein involved in Alzheimer’s, progressive supranuclear palsy, and corticobasal degeneration. Phase 1 studies are focused on safety, not efficacy.

Alzforum posted a summary over the weekend on this tau research that involved PSP volunteers. Basically, the experimental drug seemed safe, and AbbVie is proceeding to a phase 2 trial in PSP. UCSF is one of the trial sites.

You will hear plenty more about this research is you attend our October 28th PSP/CBD Research Update and Family Conference in the SF Bay Area. Registration will open soon. We are hoping that AbbVie will sponsor part of our conference. Keep your fingers crossed!

Here’s a link to the Alzforum summary about this PSP research:

www.alzforum.org/news/conference-coverage/high-dose-av-and-tau-immunotherapies-complete-initial-safety-tests

High-Dose Aβ and Tau Immunotherapies Complete Initial Safety Tests
Series – Alzheimer’s Association International Conference 2017
27 Aug 2017
Alzforum

Robin

 

Caregiving tricks (The Caregiver Space)

Today’s Caregiver Space had a blog post containing various tricks from its caregiver community.  These two were new to me:

“OK Google.” Turning on this little charmer on your Android cellphone is a great time saver. “OK Google…. Create a new appointment with Dr. Doe for February 23, 2018, at 9am.” “OK Google…remind me to stop at CVS.” “OK Google…remind me to call the bank tomorrow afternoon.” “OK Google…remind me in 45 minutes to remove the casserole from the oven.” – Joseph A

Use a pool noodle just under the fitted sheet and on top of mattress. Keeps one from rolling out of bed! – Susan W

Here’s a link to the full post:

thecaregiverspace.org/whats-your-best-caregiving-trick/

What’s your best caregiving trick?
by Michelle Daly
The Caregiver Space
Aug 27, 2017

Robin

“Hard-Won Advice in Books on Aging and Elder Care” (NYT)

This recent article in The New York Times is an overview of four books on aging and elder care:

* “Being Mortal,” by Atul Gawande
* “The 36-Hour Day,” by Nancy L. Mace and Peter V. Rabins
* “A Bittersweet Season,” by Jane Gross
* “Being My Mom’s Mom,” by Loretta Anne Woodward Veney

If you are interested in reading some excerpts from Atul Gawande’s book, see our blog post by longtime group member Helen Medsger, who offered some excerpts in January 2016.

And we have highlights of “The 36-Hour Day” posted to our blog post from 2012. Parts of the book are applicable to all caregivers, not just dementia caregivers.

I had never heard of the fourth book; it sounds well worth reading! Maybe we can get one of our faithful Brain Support Network volunteers to read it and offer us some advice from it.

Here’s a link to the full article:

www.nytimes.com/2017/08/18/your-money/aging-elder-care-books.html

Your Money
Hard-Won Advice in Books on Aging and Elder Care
By Ron Lieber
The New York Times
Aug. 18, 2017

Robin

Benefits of palliative care, and list of palliative care programs in Northern California

Recently I came across a research article on the emerging role of palliative care in multiple system atrophy (MSA) and progressive supranuclear palsy (PSP). The article makes the point that palliative care emphasizes “quality of life in progressive disorders” and is beneficial for all neurodegenerative disorders.

If you’d like to read the full article, check out this link:

www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S135380201630400X

Palliative Care and its Emerging Role in Multiple System Atrophy and Progressive Supranuclear Palsy
Parkinsonism & Related Disorders
January 2017, volume 34, pages 714

I had a feeling that if I shared this link, many of you would ask “where can I find a palliative care program?” Brain Support Network volunteer Denise Dagan created a list of as many palliative care programs as she could find on the Peninsula and in the South Bay. Since many of these medical clinics exist throughout Northern California — Sutter Health, Kaiser, PAMF, etc — this list should be useful to most of you on this list.

Robin

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PALLIATIVE CARE PROGRAMS ON THE PENINSULA AND IN THE SOUTH BAY
By Denise Dagan (Brain Support Network volunteer)
August 2017

California Pacific Medical Center (CPMC), in San Francisco, is part of Sutter Health. Information about their program can be found here: http://www.cpmc.org/services/palliative.html, or for more information contact Linda Blum, RN, NP, at 415-600-4576.

The Chinese Hospital, San Francisco Call 415-677-2349 for information.

Community Hospital of the Monterey Peninsula Ask your doctor for more information.

El Camino Hospital, Mountain View Call 650-988-7624 for information or visit https://www.elcaminohospital.org/services/palliative-care

Hospice By the Bay offers palliative care in collaboration with these hospitals:
Marin General, Sonoma Valley, Sonoma Acres and Broadway Villa Sonoma. Call 415-927-2273 for information.

Jewish Family and Children’s Services of San Francisco, the Peninsula, Marin and Sonoma Counties offers palliative care through Seniors At Home. Call 844-222-3212 or visit the JFCS’ Seniors At Home website.

Kaiser Permanente offers palliative care at several locations around the bay:
Oakland – Inpatient 510-801-7246, Outpatient 510-752-1834
Richmond – Outpatient 510-752-1834
San Francisco – Outpatient 415-833-0204
San Jose – Inpatient 408-972-6888, Outpatient 408-972-7311

Palliative Care


Santa Clara – Inpatient 408-851-7578, Outpatient 408-851-0537,

Palliative Care

Laguna Honda Hospital, San Francisco Call 415-682-1230 for information or to arrange a tour.

Mission Hospice & Home Care, San Mateo, offers in-home palliative care. Call the Clinical Outreach Team 650-554-1000 for information or visit https://www.missionhospice.org/services/transitions/.

Palo Alto Medical Foundation (PAMF) offers palliative care in several locations:
Dublin, Fremont, Mountain View, Palo Alto, Santa Cruz, and Sunnyvale

http://www.pamf.org/palliativecare/locations/

Pathways offers palliative care for any individual or private physician referral on the peninsula, south and east bay areas. Call 844-755-7855 for information.

Regional Medical Center, San Jose Call 877-868-4827 for information

St. Francis Memorial Hospital, San Francisco Call 415-353-6856 or 415-353-6180 for information.

St. Mary’s Medical Center, San Francisco Call 415-750-5907 for information.

San Francisco General Hospital offers inpatient palliative care in Comfort Care Suites. Ask your doctor for more information or visit http://hospital-zsfg.medicine.ucsf.edu/services/palliative.html.

San Mateo Medical Center, San Mateo County Health System Call 650-573-2381 for Information.

Santa Clara Valley Medical Center, San Jose Call 408-793-5974 for information.

Season’s Hospice and Palliative Care offers palliative care in both San Mateo and Santa Clara Counties. Call 855-812-1136 or email [email protected] for information.

Sequoia Hospital, in Redwood City, offers palliative care through Pathways. Sequoia Hospital is a co-owner of Pathways. Call 888-755-7855 for information.

Stanford offers palliative care in these locations:
Palo Alto – Lucile Packard Children’s Hospital. Call 650-497-8963 for information.
Palo Alto – Palliative Care at Stanford Hospital. Call 650-724-0385 for information.
San Jose – Cancer Center South Bay. Call 408-426-4900 for information.

Sutter Health This page has a list of 33 palliative care doctors affiliated with Sutter Health (including, CPMC, Mills-Peninsula Medical Center, PAMF and Sutter Pacific Medical Foundation) in several locations:
Alameda, Auburn, Berkeley, Burlingame, Castro Valley, Fremont, Hayward, Modesto, Oakland, Palo Alto, Roseville, Sacramento, San Francisco, San Jose, San Mateo, Santa Cruz, Santa Rosa, Sunnyvale, and Yuba City
http://www.sutterhealth.org/findadoctor/northern-california-hospice-and-palliative-medicine-doctors-results.html?Nao=0&recPerPage=100&Nao=0

UCSF Medical Center offers inpatient and outpatient palliative care at both Parnassus and Mission Bay, and inpatient palliative care at SF General Hospital. Call 415-502-6861 for more information.

Veterans Affairs (VA) offers palliative care at several locations:
Palo Alto VA Health Care System – contact them through [email protected]
San Francisco VA Medical Center offers hospice and palliative care through Geriatric Services. Call 415-221-4810, ext. 2-3224 for information.

Visiting Angels offers palliative care in several locations:
Burlingame – Call 650-344-2178 for information.
Fremont – Call 510-284-0000 for information.
San Jose – Call 408-241-5100 for information.
Sunnyvale – Call 408-735-0977 for information.

Vitas Healthcare offers palliative care in several locations:
Milpitas – Call 408-964-6800 for information.
San Francisco – Call 415-874-4400 for information.
San Mateo – Call 650-350-1835 for information.

With Grace Hospice and Palliative Care, San Jose Call 408-444-5500 for information.

 

“You’re Sorry for Someone’s Loss. But How Do You Say It?” (NYT)

This recent New York Times article contains some do’s and don’ts about expressing sorrow for someone’s loss.  The experts review these topics:

* digital condolences (social media and email)
* getting started (don’t procrastinate)
* draw on your memories (“share a memory of the person who died with the bereaved”)
* offer concrete ways to help
* what not to say (don’t refer to your own experiences with death)
* the importance of reaching out

The article mentions this webpage of sample condolence messages:

condolencemessages.net/condolence-messages

Here’s a link to the full article:

www.nytimes.com/2017/08/24/smarter-living/condolence-letters-how-to.html

Smarter Living
You’re Sorry for Someone’s Loss. But How Do You Say It?
By Christopher Mele
The New York Times
Aug. 24, 2017

Robin

 

“Caregivers and Grief and Loss” Webinar, Aug 29

Caregiver Teleconnection is hosting another telephone conference call for family caregivers. Details are:

Caregivers and Grief and Loss
Tele-Learning Session
Tuesday, August 29, 9AM – 10AM PT
Cost: No Charge

Speaker: Evalyn Greb, LCSW, social worker

Description:
This session will help participants understand that grieving is a process that may start at the diagnosis of a degenerative condition, that loss and grief are universal human conditions that cannot be avoided but must be endured, and that caregivers may grieve over long periods of time. Evalyn will discuss the techniques and resources that are available for help.

Registration

Registration required at least 24 hours in advance.

“Mourning the Imagined” – anticipatory grief (Caregiver Space)

This recent post from “The Caregiver Space” is about anticipatory grief. Here’s the key excerpt:

“When you love someone, you have dreams for them even though you don’t realize it. And when a caregiving journey begins, particularly for someone with a long term or incurable illness, those dreams die. And you can experience a very real sense of grief and mourning, even though the person is still alive. You mourn the imagined life, the one in which things take a “natural” course and allow you to plan our your life. You mourn the loss of that person’s contributions to the family, whether it be a special recipe, or wise counsel, or them simply being the backbone of the family unit. You’re forced to let go of how things are supposed to be, and live for the moment.”

Here’s a link to the full blog post:

thecaregiverspace.org/mourning-the-imagined/

Mourning the Imagined
by D. Southern

The Caregiver Space
July 24, 2017

Robin